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Everyone is different and everyone likes a different amount of pressure during their massage.
This is why I check in with clients regarding the pressure during their treatment.
If the pressure isn’t enough or if it’s too much please speak up and let me know. Everyone is different and everyone has a different pain threshold, I can’t read your mind so I won’t know how much pressure you like, unless you tell me.
I won’t be offended, in fact I’ll be pleased if you ask for a different pressure during your treatment, because it means I have a chance to do something about it. Rather than you leaving dissatisfied.
I don’t want you to lie on the massage table in pain, I don’t want you to lie there wishing for more pressure, I want you to have the best massage possible. And that involves a small amount of feedback from you! Otherwise I’ll be none the wiser.
A lot of clients ask me if I have a regular massage and the answer is yes! About once a month!
I feel so many benefits from having a regular massage that it seems silly not to have one!
Besides the obvious reason of it feeling nice and being a treat, I do notice lots of other benefits from having regular treatments. Here are my favourite side effects…
I find that massage keeps my muscles and joints moving nicely, massage helps to keep me supple and as I love to dance it’s very noticeable if I’ve ceased up. I notice the tightness more in the colder months as I don’t like the cold I seem to tense up more.
Massage also helps my mental health, it seems to turn the volume down on depression and anxiety.
It gives my brain an hour to just chill out and be completely still. It’s a lovely feeling when I realise my brain has managed to quieten down.
The floaty happy feeling I get after a massage feels wonderful and I wish I could feel that happy forever, unfortunately life does get in the way of that, which is why it’s important to keep having regular treatments.
The more my brain remembers how to quieten down (through regular practice during massage and meditation), the easier it is to reproduce at other times.
There are also many other physiological effects, which are less noticeable to me, but if I miss out having my regular massage they soon become more apparent! These include a well functioning immune system, glowing skin, a happier digestive system and better sleep!
So, as I said, it seems silly not to have a massage!
What are your favourite side effects of massage?
- Your left lung has 2 lobes. Your right lung has 3 lobes. Left lungs are slightly smaller to allow room for the heart!
- There are 7 main chakras in your body – Root, Sacral, Solar Plexus, Heart, Throat, Third Eye, Crown.
- Your digestive tract is approximately 30 foot long!
- The human body contains approximately 640 muscles and 206 bones.
- Blood makes up about one-twelfth of your body weight. Approximately 5 litres/11 pints.
In my honest opinion the simple answer is no. No, massage shouldn’t hurt.
However, there is a smudgy grey area in between pleasure and pain.
Your massage shouldn’t have you gritting your teeth or clenching your knuckles or gripping onto the table for dear life.
Although if this is something you personally enjoy then carry on!
If your massage treatment turns into something you no longer enjoy or don’t look forward to, you need to tell your therapist to use less pressure, because we are not mind readers! We won’t be offended. Everybody likes a different pressure and if you don’t communicate your preferences the therapist won’t know that you’re not enjoying your massage.
On some occasions a massage may feel a little tender or a little uncomfortable, these feelings are ok. Sometimes if you have an old injury, or you’ve been carrying around muscle tension for a long time, there can be some scar tissue and knots in your muscles. These can feel a little uncomfortable when being massaged and it is to be expected. But this shouldn’t be painful.
There are also times when you might feel a little sore after your massage, sometimes into the next day. Again, this will usually be because of the breakdown of some scar tissue or long term adhesions within your muscles. Usually the soreness will disappear within 24-48 hours leaving you feeling better than you were originally. This soreness is likened to the soreness that comes from doing a new exercise routine (Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness – DOMS).
In sports massage a lot of people think of the term “no pain, no gain”. I think this is a misleading saying. Yes there might be some uncomfortable moments that you need to get through to feel better, but there shouldn’t be pain. The same as exercise; you might feel uncomfortable and have to push yourself to finish, but there shouldn’t be pain. Pain would probably indicate an injury.
I believe massage should be healing, and most certainly allow you to relax in order for your body to do the hard work of repairing itself. And how can your body do that when you have to scrape yourself off the ceiling after a treatment?
Above all, massage should be an enjoyable experience and if you aren’t enjoying it then please let your therapist know.
This does go the other way as well, if you feel your therapist is being too gentle please also let them know!
As part of the aftercare advice I give to my clients I usually advise to stay well hydrated and drink plenty!
There are so many articles on the internet telling you the benefits of staying hydrated I’m sure you don’t need another one.
But how about what happens when you don’t stay hydrated?
Recently I had a couple of days where I just forgot to drink, which is very unlike me!
I found myself feeling tired and lethargic, slightly confused and forgetful, my head was pounding the next morning. My skin felt dry and I looked tired, I felt achy and stiff and my mouth and throat were dry. My vision was a little blurry. I couldn’t stop yawning. I felt very congested and blocked, almost like I had a build up of dead energy and waste inside my body.
All of this was very easily remedied with a couple of pints of clear refreshing tap water. I felt rejuvenated, flushed through, cleansed and my mental clarity returned.
We are so lucky to have access to this rejuvenating source of energy, just at the turn of a tap. It’s so easy to get a hold of it that sometimes I take it for granted, or even forget it’s there.
So I thought I would write this little post as a reminder to myself that every time I tell a client to drink plenty and stay well hydrated I shall take a long swig of that clear stuff as well.
I’m pleased to let you know that my card machine arrived this morning. This means that I am now able to accept card payments!